“harman, help me think of a paper topic for a political science class. Something to do with canada. Please bro”
YOU SHOULD WRITE SOMETHING ON HOW/WHY A GOVERNMENT WITH ELECTION FRAUD IS STILL IN POWER, OR WHY CANADA HAS MOVED TO THE RIGHT AND PASSING LAWS THAT REMOVE OUR CIVIL LIBERTIES OR SOMETHING
“how do you relate to the music you listen to when you havent done drugs. you should stick to the douche bag boy band zoo babies music you so desperately promote.”
LOLZZZZZzzz HOMIES COME ON THE BLOG JUST TO GET MAD AT THE BLOG. HERE YOU GO THOUGH
“how do i stop comparing every guy i meet to my ex (who was my first boyfriend) and every relationship i have to the one i had with my ex? Our relationship was perfect, we were best friends, but lovers. I want that again, but I doubt I’ll ever find it.”
The problem here is that you are trying to replace a memory while simultaneously trying to create a new one. You can’t do both.
Step one: Move on from your past relationship. I mean totally close that chapter. Accept and appreciate the fact that you will never be in that type of situation ever again. Only when you close that window will a door open or however that bullshit goes.
Step two: Let go. Stop trying to control every emotion you feel and stop constantly evaluating it. If you are feeling the situation move forward, if you are not then move onto another situation. Be happy just being happy. Stop looking for solutions to problems you don’t have.
Step three: Stop lying to yourself. Your relationship was not perfect. You are not together now for that exact reason. Stop romanticizing a time that never was. Your best time is right now - make it count.
“I’m working on a project and I would like for you to contribute. How do I get in touch with you?”
“Hey Harman. There’s a guy that I’ve been talking to & we have been talking for over two weeks. Recently he asked me if I could text him because he was going to go out & drink with his friends. I got upset about this because I didn’t want him to make it into a habit & after arguing about it, he told me he’ll stop drinking. Should I actually believe him or think he’s just messing with me?”
It is easier for us to hide and lie, then it is to change.